About Caroline, The Misfit behind the Brand

A formerly shy, autistic introvert who became a socially confident version of myself.

Hi! I'm Caroline, a.k.a., The Introverted Misfit, a social confidence coach based in Auburn, AL. Once upon a time, I had such bad social anxiety that my counselor wanted to start me on medication to ease my nerves in social settings. I was scared of talking to people because I didn’t know how to talk to them; I didn’t know how to play the social game that I saw everyone else playing.

The reason for my struggles with communication became clear when I was diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome as a teenager, or as it’s now known as Level 1 Autistic Spectrum Disorder (ASD), which is a neurological disorder that affects how people interact with others, communicate, learn, and behave. Because I was able to become a socially confident version of myself without acting extroverted and without being perfect, I do the same for other “introverted misfits” in my 1-on-1 work with clients — whether they’re autistic, or just an introvert who wants to refine their social confidence and abilities.

I help introverts who find socializing to be tricky and nerve-racking become socially confident without having to act extroverted or be socially perfect.

Right now you might struggle with your social confidence as an introvert — whether or not you’re on the spectrum or not, and it’s preventing you from creating and sustaining a healthy social life, business connections, and relationships. I can help with that! With my 1-on-1 coaching services for shy, awkward, or low support needs autistic introverts, I help you realize that you can become a socially confident introvert without being loud, extroverted, or having 100% perfect social skills; you can use your unique communication strengths to connect with the right kind of people!

I also offer support via my podcast and my in-person community, The Right Fit Community based in the Auburn/Opelika area.

Here’s what I am NOT:

  • I’m not an autism expert or specialist.

  • I’m not a professional counselor, therapist, or psychologist.

  • I’m not someone who wants to force you to become someone you’re not.

Here’s what I AM:

  • I am social confidence coach for introverts who need help in the social arena — whether they’re autistic or not.

  • I am an introverted woman who happens to be on the spectrum and is not ashamed of it.

  • I am someone who used to be scared of talking to people, and then I discovered that they’re not so scary after all. So, I help other people discover that same thing for themselves.

Explore My 1-on-1 Coaching Offerings

  • 60-Minute Social Confidence Booster

    What’s the most pressing thing on your mind right now regarding your social confidence? In this is a single, virtual 60-minute session, we’ll focus on one or two issues you’re facing regarding your social life.

  • Find Your People

    Having trouble finding friends? In this virtual 4-week program, we’ll come up with a solid, gameplan that will help you build a social circle and create a manageable social life that works for your needs.

  • Socialize With Confidence

    Do you feel nervous, shy, and awkward in social settings? This virtual 9- or 12-week program will help you become confident navigating social settings without acting like someone you’re not.

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